• About soulmates
It starts with understanding why.
Most marriage conferences focus on what couples should do. SoulMates helps couples understand why they do what they do.
a new way of seeing
SoulMates is a weekend marriage event that combines biblical truth, a personal motivational assessment, and practical tools to help couples communicate more honestly, navigate conflict more gracefully, and love each other well. As an outreach of Life Action, SoulMates brings marriage events to churches nationwide.
We believe healthy marriages strengthen families, churches, and communities. SoulMates exists to build strong marriages.
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This is SoulMates
SoulMates helps couples go Deeper
Many marriage events focus on communication techniques. SoulMates goes deeper.
Rather than simply telling couples what to do differently, SoulMates helps them understand the motivations, deeper longings, and relational patterns driving their behavior in the first place. That self-awareness is what makes the change stick.
Rooted in a biblical foundation
Every aspect of SoulMates is rooted in a biblical understanding of the soul.
The weekend is designed to help couples pursue deeper connection with both God and each other. Because God made us through love, for love, and to love, we believe the health of a marriage is inseparable from the health of each person's relationship with God.
• Relational intelligence
Understanding what drives us changes how we relate.
That insight shapes how couples communicate, navigate conflict, and love each other day to day.
The SDI Assessment
As part of SoulMates, you’ll each complete the Strength Deployment Inventory (SDI), a personal assessment that helps you better understand yourself and each other.
Your personalized results help you understand:
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What’s underneath how you think and respond
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What happens between you when conflict hits
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The strengths you each bring to your marriage
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How to better understand and love one another
Many couples describe the SDI as the most eye-opening part of the weekend — a shared language for conversations they've never quite been able to have before.
If your marriage is strong, you'll leave with deeper understanding and tools to take it further.
If you're stuck in the same cycles, you'll finally have language for what's happening — and a path forward.
If you're still figuring things out, you'll build a foundation that will serve you for decades.
• Wherever you are
Four sessions, built around your relationship.
Engaging teaching and experiential learning — biblically grounded and made for the real work of marriage.
Understanding our motivations — the deeper needs and desires beneath what we say and do — so we can move toward each other with intention.
Philippians 2:3–4
Recognizing the patterns that keep us stuck in conflict and learning to respond with understanding instead of escalation.
James 4:1–2
Learning how our strengths can work against us and how to use them in balance to build each other up.
1 John 4:16, 18 · Ephesians 4:29
Learning how to speak and listen in ways that bring you closer with honesty, understanding, and grace.
Romans 12:10, 16
• ENDORSED BY LEADERS
Pastors and leaders
who trust what we do.
Pastors and ministry leaders don't recommend lightly. These are the people who have experienced SoulMates firsthand.
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what you'll experience
A weekend designed for real growth.
Engaging teaching, practical tools, and guided conversations — interactive, biblically grounded, and built around your relationship.
Interactive teaching sessions
Four biblical and practical modules guide couples through the core issues that shape every marriage:
Building a Thriving Marriage
Philippians 2:3–4
Breaking the Conflict Cycle
James 4:1–2
Balancing Your Strengths
1 John 4:16,18; Ephesians 4:29
Communicating for Connection
Romans 12:10,16
Guided couple conversations
Intentional time is built in for you and your spouse to process what you're learning together — turning insight into action within your own relationship.
Tools you can use immediately:
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A shared language for understanding each other
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Practical communication & conflict-resolution tools
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Personalized relational insights from the SDI
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A growth plan for your marriage
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Ongoing access to results via the Core Strengths app
A safe, encouraging environment
Whether your marriage is thriving, struggling, or simply ready for the next level, SoulMates provides a welcoming, hope-filled space where couples learn, connect, and grow together. The meaningful work happens between you and your spouse — not in front of the room.
• Wherever you are
SoulMates meets couples wherever they are.
Whatever season you're in, you'll leave with a shared language, a personalized action plan, and a renewed hope for what's possible.
If your marriage is strong, you'll leave with deeper understanding and tools to take it further.
If you're stuck in the same cycles, you'll finally have language for what's happening — and a path forward.
If you're still figuring things out, you'll build a foundation that will serve you for decades.
Who is SoulMates for?
SoulMates meets couples wherever they are.
Newly married or preparing for marriage — build a strong foundation that will serve you for decades.
Strong marriage, ready to go deeper — gain shared understanding and build an even stronger foundation for the road ahead.
Stuck in the same cycles — finally get language for what's happening, and a path forward.
Coasting and ready for a reset — rediscover connection and shared purpose.
Church leaders and ministry couples — invest in the relationship that anchors everything else.